Love stories are as unique as the people who live them, and Aderinsola and Tomi’s is no exception. From playful jokes to heartfelt proposals, from glamorous wedding gowns to rich cultural traditions, their celebration of love is filled with beautiful moments. Here's a glimpse into their journey.

Tomi and Aderinsola's love story began with an apple—a fitting nod to their annual tradition of apple picking in upstate New York. Inspired by Tomi's passion as a teacher (and a playful promise to one day gift her an apple), Aderinsola decided this tradition was the perfect setting for a life-changing question.

A Thoughtful Proposal—Times Two

One fall day, as Tomi reached for an apple in the orchard, Aderinsola knelt behind her, holding a ring in an apple-shaped box. Tomi didn’t see it coming, but the surprise proposal was filled with romance and thoughtfulness.

Though they were officially engaged, Tomi wanted a special moment to propose to Aderinsola in return. She created an intimate experience they would both treasure on Valentine's Day.

Tomi transformed their apartment with rose petals and decorations, then played a heartfelt video of memorable moments from their relationship. The video ended with her proposal, featuring an elegant and meaningful custom-made sapphire ring.

Wedding Attire Dreams

The couple's wedding style was as distinctive as their love story. For Tomi, wedding dress shopping was a rollercoaster of emotions. Accompanied by her bridesmaid, sister, and future mother-in-law, she explored countless options before landing on not one but three stunning looks. Her choices included a glamorous beaded mermaid gown for the ceremony, a sleek sheath dress for the reception, and a fun satin mini dress for the after-party.

Aderinsola, meanwhile, was clear about their sartorial vision. They worked with Brooklyn-based custom suit makers Bindle & Keep to create a tailored look that felt sharp and stylish. Months of Pinterest planning came together beautifully in a suit that perfectly matched their personality.

Infusing Culture With Pride

Being Nigerian is an essential part of their identity, so infusing their wedding with cultural elements was natural. They hosted a traditional Yoruba engagement ceremony in addition to their garden-style wedding.

This celebration was a reimagining of the custom that reflected who they are as a queer couple. They created a meaningful and inclusive event with the help of family and chosen loved ones. Aderinsola’s mother and sister played a key role in coordinating their traditional attire, and the couple was thrilled with the final result.

Moments to Remember

One of the most cherished memories from their wedding weekend came during the engagement ceremony. The couple was surrounded by close friends and family and experienced a powerful moment of love and community. Guests shared memories, prayers, and blessings that moved everyone to tears. It was a heartfelt reminder of the support that surrounds them.

Advice for Engaged Couples

When asked about their advice for couples planning their wedding, Aderinsola and Tomi were clear: Cut that guest list! They emphasized the importance of keeping the celebration intimate and ensuring that every guest brings positivity and love.

Their wedding weekend was all the more remarkable because they were surrounded by people who supported their relationship and came with open hearts.

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